How to Raise a Well Behaved Child.
Episode 1: USING POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT
"All kids have their moments, but knowing that you can count on your kid to behave can make your life much easier. Catch your child behaving well and reinforce their good behavior. Help them gain social skills by using good manners and not complaining or whining. Use consistent discipline and find opportunities to teach, not punish".
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Praise their good behavior. When you catch your child acting well-behaved, let them know! This can help them realize that good behavior is noticed and celebrated. It also shows them what behaviors are acceptable and appreciated.For example, say, “You shared your toy with your sibling. That is quite thoughtful and kind of you, good job!”
2 Give your child rewards for good behavior. When you catch your child behaving well, give them a reward such as more screen time or a trip to the playground. To reinforce good behavior throughout the week, try using a behavior chart. You can assign a point system and let them choose a small reward once they reach the points.
- Some behaviors might include speaking calmly (not yelling), sharing, cleaning up, taking turns, and doing chores.
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Interact and play with your child often. You can spend quality time with your child while helping them develop behavior skills. Help them modify their behavior if they are acting aggressively, selfishly, or unsafely by expressing these things in play. You can teach your child rules and limits while having fun with them.
- For example, help your child understand sharing by acting out scenarios with dolls or figurines.
- Throw a make-believe tea party with your child and show them how to interact with friends and guests.
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